Back Stabbed...It Hurts
I have or had a friend I knew (or I thought I knew) for the past three years. It was kind of a brotherly sisterly kind of relationship. I shared my problems with him including certain personal stuffs that I wouln't even tell my closest friend. Many people didn't like him. But I didn't care since he was ok with me....until one day when his involvements in my personal life went a bit overboard and this made me uncomfortable. But still I didn't make a fuss. Finally the ultimate disaster happened. He let out something I told him to the wrong source. I don't know whether he used my name on purpose or not but I assume he is not retarded. I got bombarded by my close friend. I managed to settle things with her but I feel so bad. He made me sound like a very mean person towards my friend where truthfully I didn't mean whatever I said. I couln't ask him about it since my friend didn't want me to develop the issue. He still talks to me as if nothing went wrong although I've started avoiding him (he hasn't realized I guess). I trusted him more than my close friends and I never expected things to happen this way. I've supported him in many situations. I've hurt a few loved ones due to this. I'm really sorry ......
SOME friends.... I just don't get it. But thanx to God I've got many other better friends who actually scold, irritate, and never listen to me, but in the end still care me (directly or indirectly)
You don't need to show appreacietion 24-7 to your friends but don't back stab.. it hurts...it still does
SOME friends.... I just don't get it. But thanx to God I've got many other better friends who actually scold, irritate, and never listen to me, but in the end still care me (directly or indirectly)
You don't need to show appreacietion 24-7 to your friends but don't back stab.. it hurts...it still does
posted by Priya Asoken at 1:11 PM
5 Comments:
Dont really know what to say cuz dont really know what exactly happened between you and your friend.
Few things hurt more than being betrayed by the very people you trust. After that, its very hard to turn back.
I cant really say i know how you feel. I'm one of those lucky ones who was never been betrayed by the ones i trust.But i hope everything works out.
Like you said there are back stabbers in this world. But there are even more sincere and genuine friends out there.
Talk to ur 'fren'.Clear things out.Avoiding him does not help... not even in the long run.Once the cat is out of the bag who knows what else might come out unless u clear things out and find out the true story.
That's because we are the only friends you have, Nirash. Well, i don't know 'bout the others, but you guys very well know that i'm a straight-forward-tell-it-in-your-face kind of guy. So you're fucking blessed.
Im so disappointed with my friend that I dont feel like talking to him anymore. He is not stupid. He knows what he is doing. If at all I ask him he would say that he fucking care about everybody. I feel like an idiot for trusting him. The tell-it-straight-on-the-face is definitely better than a sweet talker.
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